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Writer's pictureKalina Bains

Not Where We Use to BE




As women, we often find ourselves in a place where we are not quite where we want to be. Maybe we are not sure what we want, or perhaps we know what we want but are not quite sure how to get there. It can be a frustrating and confusing place to be, with a kaleidoscope of our past, fears, and dreams but it is important to remember that we are not where we were before. We have grown and changed, we are bolder and braver.


It is natural to feel lost sometimes, but it is important to remember that we are guided by our passion and spirit. This inner guidance is what will ultimately lead us to where we want to be. It may take time and effort, but we have the power to create the life we want.


One of the first steps in creating the life we want is to identify what we truly desire. This can be a challenge, as we are often bombarded with messages from society about what we should want. It is important to take the time to reflect on what truly brings us joy and fulfillment. This may require some introspection, but it is a necessary step in the process.

Once we have identified our desires, it is important to take action towards them. This can be a scary step, as it requires us to take risks and step outside of our comfort zones. It is important to remember that growth and change cannot happen without taking risks.


As we take steps toward our desires, we may encounter obstacles and setbacks. It is important to remember that these are not failures, but rather opportunities for growth and learning. Each obstacle we overcome makes us stronger and more resilient.


Throughout this process, it is important to remember that we are not alone. We have a community of women our siSTARS who are also on this journey of growth and self-discovery. We can lean on each other for support and encouragement, and together we can create a world where women are empowered to live their best lives.


As women, we may find ourselves in a place where we are not quite where we want to be. We are guided by our passion and spirit, and with that comes strength and boldness. By identifying our desires, taking action towards them, and leaning on our community for support, we can create the life we want. Remember, we are not where we were before, and and have learned from the prisms of experiences we have gone through. We are ready for what the next journey brings listening to our women’s GPS.

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