About | Kintsugi Woman

Have a glimpse through the kaleidoscope of Kalina's life...

My journey of self-discovery started with decades of healing and growing with change, divorce, death, and new beginnings. Life, lessons, and love have brought me through a chrysalis transformation journey.

I intuitively found my way out and stepped beyond the pain, and trauma, beginning again.

My journey of transformation, healing, and awakening began during my 30-year marriage and divorce. It was a moment of change, a time to shed the old and embrace the new. This is my story of becoming the XOXO ME, Kintsugi woman, a journey that pushed me out of my chrysalis and into a feminine ethereal awakening, guided by passion and spirit.

Listening to My Inner GPS

For years, I numbed myself with medication and drinking, trying to escape the pain and confusion. But deep down, I knew there was a better way. I began to listen to my inner GPS, that quiet voice within that guided me toward healing and self-discovery. It wasn’t an easy path, but it was a necessary one.

I started working on myself for myself, with the help of coaching. This was a pivotal moment in my journey. Coaching gave me the tools and support I needed to rebuild my life.

Meditation became my sanctuary. It allowed me to connect with my inner self, to find peace amidst the chaos. Walking, became a form of moving meditation, a way to ground myself and reflect on my progress. These practices were instrumental in my healing journey.

As I healed, my desire became to help others do the same. I pursued certification and became a coach, dedicated to guiding others on their paths to self-discovery and healing. My journey had come full circle, I was now in a position to support others as they navigated their transformations.

Today, I stand before you as a XOXO ME, Kintsugi woman, embracing my cracks and imperfections as part of my unique beauty. My journey has taught me that we can shine brighter, stronger, and bolder when we embrace our true selves. As a spiritual coach, I am here to support you on your journey, to help you find your own path to awakening and healing.

I offer love to the me that was and the me that is,
I offer forgiveness to the wounds that have healed and the scars that remain

In this chrysalis of self
I embrace transformation
Emerging with wings of strength and grace
Each breath a reminder of my resilience
Each step a dance of healing

I cherish the whispers of dreams once silenced
Now blooming into the symphony of my heart
A melody of hope, of love unending

Resonating through the chambers of my soul

In the mirror of time
I see my reflection
A tapestry of trials
A mosaic of moments
Weaving together the essence of my being
Each thread a reminder of the beauty in my journey

I step into love, boldly shining
Bathing in the light of newfound possibilities
My heart is a beacon of love and compassion, guiding me through the ever-changing kalidecope of life

I honour the shadows that dance within
The echoes of growth and wisdom The silent guardians of my spirit's rise
Leading me toward love and light

In the quiet embrace of the universe
I find solace and serenity
A sanctuary of peace within my heart
Where love flourishes and blossoms eternally

Kalina Bains